I've never been the person who wanted to be in the spotlight. I always felt comfortable in the background. However, comfort never suited me. I'm uncomfortable when I'm comfortable. In other words, it's boring and to be quite frank, it annoys me. I like to think of myself as the silent risk taker. I may have very few words, but I'll take action in a heartbeat. Standing out and being my best at the things I'm involved with are -to me, my best features.

Growing up I was taught to think for myself. I was conformed into the molded mindset of knowing who you are and what you stand for, and no matter what NEVER let anyone tell you anything different. I was to say what I meant and mean what I said. Oh how my mouth has gotten me into trouble, HA!I like to think of this modeling as a gift and a curse.
A curse because being the strong minded person who says what they mean and means what they say, could potentially become a negative person, an intimidator, and a bully. Makes me think of the saying "it's not always what you say, but how you say it".Throughout my lifetime I've had the pleasure of being confronted with words that often times cut like a knife. They bruised me and pushed me into dark corners afraid to come out. They caused me pain but they also gave me strength.
I became passionate about learning new words and their meaning and the proper context to use them in. I also learned to use my words as weapons -I've tarnished egos, buried others emotions all the while setting their spirits on fire. I was silent for the most part, but when I spoke my words were never empty and you always felt me even if I were hundreds of miles away. 

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I became a fighter as a result of me feeling the need to protect myself the only way I saw fit. I mean, I have always been too pretty to fight…but I will. I lost my trust in people. I embraced the negative connotation that anyone who isn't like me cannot be trusted; because all people are the same -they're fake and they don't really like me, they're just using me to help them get to their next level. Sadly, these thoughts were validated more often than I would have liked, but all people are not the same and for that reason I needed to learn to trust.

Having the say what you mean and mean what you say mentality is a gift because when knowing who you are and what you stand for it is hard to be persuaded from your truth. You may not always be right, but when you are right you have the conviction in the facts and are compelled to stand by what is right. You're also strong enough to withstand opposition. 

Being involved in ministry no matter the area or level of involvement, you will always face persecution and cross paths with someone who is a non-believer in your purpose, and in your lifestyle. Having the confidence in the Word of God and being a firm believer in the faith, you're equipped with what you need in order to endure the battle and serve your purpose without persuasion.

I'm grateful to have found my purpose and to have reconstructed my way of thinking. I no longer use my words for weapons to attack people, I use them to fulfill the purpose my Father has given me; To reveal the truths about myself in hopes that my transparency will help to heal, motivate, and encourage others to continue to press. 
I reiterate, I've never been the person who wanted to be in the spotlight -but for some divine reason I find myself inching closer and closer to the platform. No longer will I fret when its my time to take center stage. I will embrace the journey, embody the definition of the Saint, and encourage the lives of Gods people. I am the light that shines for all the world to see, my purpose is bigger and brighter than me.

Love, ChelCy" is like the signature at the end of a letter, expressing that everything written above is flowing from my heart. I was called to ministry about 3 years ago. It wasn't until April 2014 that I received confirmation on what my ministry outlet would be. While attending the Women Who Win Conference in April God impressed in my spirit that now was the time to share my testimonies and the redemptive power of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Me, like most individuals have gone through many trials and tribulations. I've gone from non-believing to believing, learning faith and the benefits of faithfulness, and overcoming in life's difficult moments. 

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It wasn't until May 2014 that I purchased this website and started the "Love, ChelCy" blog. This process has allowed me to realize how far I've grown as a Christian. It has revealed to me my strengths and weaknesses and allowed me to become a better person. By humbling myself and becoming transparent for Christ, I am able to reach people I don't even know. I am able to spread a message that is so much bigger than myself. Receiving those messages that say, "Thank you for obeying God, your posts encouraged me", makes it all worth it. The only way to create change is to be that change. It is my belief that "transparency heals" and that reasoning alone gives me the drive to push through and post. 

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I am a sister, daughter, lover of people, and a friend. I am a daughter of the King. I am a queen! I am a dog mom, I have a beautiful "dogter" named Bella who brings more joy to my heart than I ever could have imagined. I am engaged to be married to my best friend. I am a business owner and entrepreneur. Sweet Pea’s Customs & Cakery, Love, ChelCy, and Dollz Makeup Artistry are my children. God has anointed my hands to do many things and for that I am truly grateful. With my hands I create things that bring people joy. With my body I magnify the Father through dance. With my words I encourage  people to try again and never give up on themselves or God. 

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I am an outspoken believer of Christ. I am the salt. I am the light! I am me!  I love everything about me -the good, the bad, the ugly, and the worst parts of me. I am the called, anointed, and totally transformed version of my former self. I succeed, I fail, I try over and over again until I get things right. I am on the road towards becoming my best self and I invite you to tag along. Buckle up your seat belts! The road may get bumpy and it may take a few detours to get to my destination. Sometimes you may need a few tissues and that's ok. Other times you may even what to shout "The victory is mine!". 

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Through every test there is a Lesson Learned. With every triumph there is a testimony. As the days pass and life changes I enjoy taking notes…with every breath there's a new possibility to overcome in difficulty. Enjoy the ride, Embrace your journey, Expand your creativity, and Don't Give Up! 

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-Chelsie